October 14, 2026

How Much of My Family Tree Depends on My Own Judgment? | AF-1326


The longer I work in genealogy, the more I realize something about family tree research: a family tree isn’t simply something I find. I build it. Records give me names, dates, places, relationships, occupations, witnesses, neighbors, signatures, and dozens of other clues, but the records don’t come with instructions telling me exactly where every piece belongs.

That means I’m making decisions all the time. I decide whether the John Smith in one census is the same John Smith in the next, whether conflicting birth years can describe the same person, and whether a parent-child relationship has enough support to enter as a conclusion rather than a possibility.

In this episode, I look at how we weigh conflicting evidence, test our assumptions, and preserve the reasoning behind the connections in our family trees.

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October 12, 2026

Would My Ancestors Recognize the Story I Wrote About Them?

Would My Ancestors Recognize the Story I Wrote About Them?

Writing ancestor stories means staying close to the evidence, even when a more dramatic explanation would make the story feel complete. I deleted a sentence the other day because I realized I had gone farther than the records allowed. The sentence fit nicely with the story I was putting together, and based on everything I knew about the family, it even sounded reasonable. But when I looked at it again, I realized I was telling the reader what that person felt, even though I had no record that actually said so.

That is surprisingly easy to do when we write about people who can no longer correct us. We collect enough records to know where an ancestor lived, what kind of work he did, who he married, how many children he had, and perhaps something about the problems the family faced. Then we start connecting those facts into a life story. Somewhere along the way, it can become tempting to explain why someone made a decision or what that person must have been thinking.

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